When a seed turns into flower, it takes time.
When a foetus turn into a baby, it takes time.
When a caterpillar matures into a butterfly it takes time.
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When a person turns over into a new leaf, it takes time.
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It amuses me to hear/see of such people thinking that these changes can be brought forward quickly with constant pressure or brute persistence.
An educated individual would know that in life,
it's best to take a step at a time and having an end result that is fulfilling,
fruitful and at the same time joyful.
Life ain't always about being a bull for a matador to toy with but rather it's about carving your own path,
living what you wanna live for.
I feel sorry for this person who was denied that basis.
If i could add a characteristic to these kind of people,
who denied that person the happiness,
it would be that of empathy & compromise,
which they so often lack in dealing with matters concerning the livelihood of another.